Posted July 13Jul 13 I was abused at the age of 12 (sexually by my grandpa, mom's dad) for a few years and then again at the age of 16. (by my neighbor)It has messed me up so much that I can't even have sex with my husband without "freaking" out.
July 13Jul 13 4 minutes ago, Krissycakes09 said:I was abused at the age of 12 (sexually by my grandpa, mom's dad) for a few years and then again at the age of 16. (by my neighbor)It has messed me up so much that I can't even have sex with my husband without "freaking" out.I am so sorry that you have had to go through this @Krissycakes09 speaking of my experience it does mess you up but I have learnt to believe that none of it was my fault.
July 13Jul 13 Author 1 minute ago, Lavender said:I am so sorry that you have had to go through this @Krissycakes09 speaking of my experience it does mess you up but I have learnt to believe that none of it was my fault.Thats good you think that but I do feel it was my fault. I shouldn't of said anything as my mom didn't talk to me for a whole year. And it hurt my relationship with my brothers and dad.
July 13Jul 13 Just now, Krissycakes09 said:Thats good you think that but I do feel it was my fault. I shouldn't of said anything as my mom didn't talk to me for a whole year. And it hurt my relationship with my brothers and dad.I totally get that. when my mother died I felt huge guilt, but it definitely is not your fault. You were brave telling family. I only started to believe none of it was my fault when I started therapy. Not saying I still don't feel enormous blame because I do.
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