This makes me smile, knowing you were able to have those moments with your dad and brothers, and your school mates and teachers...I kind of envy that, lol, because the reality for me has been quite the opposite. But just the same, I'm very, very happy for you and I love the strength and self-determination you have. You exude it and it's absolutely wonderful! :) Excellent!! I'm glad he gets to embrace that part of himself, knowing that it's ok to explore, to have that side of yourself and not take it further than you want to go. Well done on embracing him as himself and as Allie, and good on your wife and youngest for doing so, as well. Just wonderful :)