Always a good decision. I had a long talk with mine today about my increased suicidal ideation and I immediately had a chat with my psychiatrist afterwards so we could adjust and actually remove one of my medications. Hopefully it'll help moving forward :)
I'm inclined to agree with @Lavender, I feel this might be more down to unresolved trauma than issues with sexuality. Not saying it isn't to do with sexuality, it still could be, just might be something you want to try and talk to a therapist about and your husband once you've had some time to process it a bit. 🫂